I have a feeling I’m becoming a sadomasochist, is that a risk of Vaginismus? Your brain begins to associate pleasure with the pain. I fucking hope not.
I once took psychology, so I think this is a vaguely plausible opinion; if you condition yourself to a certain behaviour or association of two parts of the brain working simultaneously (such as experiencing the pleasure of getting it on and the pain of the sex act itself) through no fault of their own, one’s brain could ‘learn’ to associate the two. My whole point in this post is that I had sex last night, like actual penetrative sex, and it wasn’t as painful as the last time by a long mile, but it also wasn’t very good for me. Is my brain leaving me behind and becoming a sadomasochist; whilst I’m just laid there during normal sex, hoping for some form of orgasm?
Anyway, that's all for now.
Stay Sadomasochistic!
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Hopefully it was just normal, less than stellar sex rather than anything else :)
ReplyDeleteSweetheart. You just need to relax, you are making unnecessary connections, and that's not good for you.
ReplyDeleteFocus on what you like about sex and then, when you have sex, pinpoint that and bring your pleasure out from that. Use your brain as a tool, not something to fight against. Take control and use it to make sure thet you think pleasure, because it will help you feel pleasure.
And you're not a sadomasochist. Not by a long way. If you were, you would feel pleasure from the pain - you would enjoy it. As that doesn't seem to be the case, I wouldn't sweat about that.
WOW! You are TOTALLY CREEPY.
ReplyDeleteYou are absolutely weird.
Do you have any self respect at all?
You are slowly turning yourself into a pleasure object for SADISTIC RAPISTS.
That REALLY freaks me out because RAPISTS love to hurt a woman's vagina.
What you experienced is definitely NOT a mutual thing.
Because you violated God's will (population control), you are slowly turning into something LESS HUMAN.
SADISTIC PENIS + UNWILLING VAGINA = SANDO-MASOCHISM??????
Even a man like me who loves watching female masturbation porn would feel REPULSED by it.
TOTALLY BIZARRE.
Vaginismus may be the strongest evidence that god exist. Some HIGHER POWER can manipulate a woman's body to control the population.
Maypaki... seriously, just leave her alone! i dont understand why you always post these nasty comments... if you have a problem with how she lives her life dont read her blog. easy as that!
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